LET´S FIGHT AGAINST DOMESTIC VIOLENCE
“Bruises hurt the least…
The humiliation and restraint was the real terror.”
(Majka, 37 years old)
WEBINAR ABOUT DOMESTIC VIOLENCE
Due to increasing attempts to steal our account on the Zoom platform, the webinars are canceled until further notice.
YOU CAN´T CALL FOR HELP BY BEING SILENT
We help domestic violence victims. If you are a victim or you know about someone, who could be, text us on social websites or visit our free and anonymous webinar.
We will assess the situation without obligation and recommend you the best way to find a solution.
Vladimír Borský
project manager
PSYCHOLOGICAL VIOLENCE
Does he/she destroy your stuff?
Does he/she blackmail and threaten you?
EMOTIONAL VIOLENCE
Does he/she threaten to take the children away?
Does he/she threaten to kick you out of the apartment?
SOCIAL VIOLENCE
Does he/she forbid you to meet with family or friends?
Does he/she insist on accessing your passwords?
PHYSICAL VIOLENCE
Does he/she threaten you with a weapon?
Does he/she forbid you sleep or food?
SEXUAL VIOLENCE
Does he/she put pressure on you?
Does he/she rape you?
ECONOMICAL VIOLENCE
Does he/she control your payments?
Does he/she hide from you your financial situation?
WHO COULD HELP YOU?
Nowadays exist a lot of institutions, which are able to help you IMMEDIATELY. It includes situations when you don´t have enough money or anywhere where to go.
Helpline for victims
Do you want to talk about your situation by phone without obligations and anonymously? Save to your mobile contact list (even under a false name) Bílý kruh bezpečí helpline number, where they can tell you the possibilities for your situation. Do not forget to call the Police of the Czech Republic in case of a threat to life or health on line 158.
The police of the Czech Republic
There are some dangerous situations, which require police assistance. Police officers are authorized to limit a person’s personal freedom and if it is necessary forbid an aggressive person to enter shared accommodation for 10 days. He/she can´t contact you or enter shared accommodation. Meanwhile, the intervention centre will contact you and offer you help for free with prepared proposals and a judge can extend this period of time up to 6 months.
Intervention center
It helps you to feel safer and explains to you your rights and how to handle them. Besides legislative help, it also offers you psychological help. Both of these areas especially in demanding situations need to be “dealt with”. The intervention center will help you with living or work. Do you have a question and don´t know if the intervention center is able to help you? Ask them and they will help you to find and convey the service you need.
FIND THE NEAREST INTERVENTION CENTER
Map of intervention centers
5 STEPS TO A NEW LIFE
Except for the situations, where you are in imminent danger, you can manage a lot of steps without help. We will lead you through the process, of how to start a safe life without fear.
1. IDENTIFICATION
2. OPTIONS
What will be your advice to your nearest person, if he/she tells you the same story?
- Do you have a problem?Just talk about it.
- Have you talked about it and it didn´t help?Find a relationship expert.
- Your partner doesn´t want to or the violence continues?End your relationship.
- You don´t live together yet?End your relationship right! Use blocking, blacklisting, ignoring, etc.
- Do you live together? Move out.
- You don´t know where to go? Try your family, friends, or emergency accommodation.
3. DECISION
Starting to solve the problem, and accepting help from experts, is proof of your POWER not weakness. In some cases, this help is not enough.
The imagination of ending a 20-year relationship could be for somebody unimaginable. “I don´t want to throw 20 years of my life away.” “I don´t want to find somebody else at my age.” “I´ve gotten used to this relationship. I am ok with it.” When you realize, how DANGEROUS a relationship could be in 5 years, you still have a chance to prevent it.
Decide to solve the situation. Tell it to your nearest friend or family
4. MOVE OUT
Is it unimaginable to move out of your house, where you have been living for 15 years and you have enough possessions to fill two lorries?
- It is said, that it´s better to burn than to move out. If you are living in a flat or house, which means for you your common past, it could be much more difficult. Today you can use moving services, which are not too expensive. Packing only your important things will take only one afternoon. Especially, if your friends help you. Property disputes will be solved by a court.
If you are afraid of attack from your partner, just ask the police for help.
- The police will be with you all the time you pack your things and prevent anyone from attacking you.
Pack emergency luggage and hide it somewhere outside your house, somewhere, where you can pick it up quickly. In an emergency situation maybe you will have to leave without your purse or wallet, so it is good to have some cash in your emergency luggage and copies of important documents. Do not forget:
- ID card, driving license, health insurance card
- Birth certificate, job contract, education certificate
- Mobile phone, charger, and power bank
- Medication that you take regularly or just in case of headache, temperature, or digestive problems.
5. A NEW LIFE
You can´t erase the past and maybe you will think about going back. Maybe your ex-partner will ask you about going back and will want to see you, even if you want to or not. Every time – just remember, how it was in the past and think about it, if you want to go back after such an exhausting fight. Do not forget, that you can use free help from the intervention center after ending a relationship.
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ABOUT OUR PROJECT
We are members of an interdisciplinary team in the area of domestic violence and our task is to transmit information in cyberspace. We inform the public about what is domestic violence and how it is possible to help victims. We don´t only educate victims, but also those who want to help and don´t know how.
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Vladimír Borský & Zuzana Straková
Vláďa is the founder and leader of our nonprofit organization and he is responsible for the expert knowledge part of the project. Zuzka creates and leads online events to increase awareness and reach as many people as possible.
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